First let me say Im glad to hear Sally is ok.
With a cast pan I use the black farpak gasket with a thin coat ultra black silicone on both side. I have seen a couple of things that give you a false leak at the pan. One can be the solenoid, It can follow the pan gasket around and drip off the front. Another can be the fill tube, if you have an o-ring type they can leak and run down the same as the solenoid. I encourage my customers to switch to a boot type tube. I even weld these ends on for my Ford and Chrysler customers. One other thing I have seen that can mimick a pan leak is to long of pan bolt. If the bolts are to long at the pump area they can hit the bottom side of the pump bore cracking it causing a leak at the pump o-ring, that will again run down and appear to be a pan leak, this can also happen at the front of the servo cover, causing a crack and leak. Hope this helps, Dan.